Terms & Conditions

Last updated: August 20th, 2026

1. Who's invited - DILF is built for like-minded queer men (gay, bi + trans men) and male-presenting non-binary folks, here to celebrate and express themselves. Age of entry varies by city - 18+ in most locations, 21+ for London events. If anyone in your party doesn't qualify they will get turned away at the door - no exceptions.

2. Zero tolerance, full stop - no racism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, body shaming, ageism, or any other flavour of hate or intolerance. Anyone causing issues will be asked to leave - on the spot.

3. Consent is ongoing, not assumed - gear, nudity, or a fetish-friendly space is never an invitation to touch. Ask first, check in often, and check in again when things change. If someone says no, that's the end of it - no questions, no pushback.

4. Dark spaces, clear rules - where local licensing allows and ticket holders have shared contact details via DILF Membership, some cities may offer dark play spaces. Only consensual acts between adults, always.

5. Drugs are a hard no - this one's simple: if you're caught holding, you're out, no questions asked, and it might not stop there. We want everyone dancing, not dealing with the consequences of something stupid.

6. Look after yourself and each other - phones stay in pockets (no screens, no snaps), pace yourself, stay safe with PrEP/protection/testing, and keep an eye on your mates and strangers alike.

7. Every DILF, every lad, every body - whoever you are, whatever you're into, you belong here, and the space stays clean and cared for by everyone in it.

8. Data & consequences - by joining, you agree that DILF holds and processes your personal information in line with UK GDPR, used only for running events and membership. You also understand that breaking any of the terms in this agreement results in permanent removal from DILF.

10. Entry requirements - Photo ID (where required) should match your membership name. You can sign up on the door, but queuing isn’t sexy - sort it beforehand and skip the line.

9. Your tickets - All tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.

If you have a queries contact us by email info@dilf.uk